Reading blogs and listening to many podcasts, I've realised that there are a lot of single homosexuals out there equalling almost to those "Open" relationships union that is hard to fathom being a non-hedonistic commune we proudly call gay LTR/Monogamous? (SARCASM SARCASM!)
Some have chosen it as a lifestyle, some are just too proud to admit that they're not partner quality, some are still trying to re-live their youthful escapades and then there are those that are so battered, they've given up trying altogether often addicted to the beat and other nocturnal haunts revelling in anonymity that are less binding.
One of the issues I find is the argument of compatibility eg. he is too young, he is not buff enough, he is not rich enough, he is not good-looking enough, he is not intelligent enough, he is not bearish enough, he is Asian, he is too White trash, he is Latino, he is Afro-American, he is too fat, he is too thin, he is not my type and the list goes on and on. Maybe, gay people are truly just after the 'enough' factor. I have come to the conclusion that homosexuals are afraid of rejection. There is no easy way to find your soulmate. There is no checklist. Bigotry gets us nowhere.
Reality check: There is no perfect partner, boyfriend or soulmate for that matter...we are all defective and that is what makes us human. Those little quirky idiosyncratic flaws last a lifetime. So all those singles out there - give everything a go before making up your mind. There is a cornucopia of people out there waiting to fall in love so stop being a bigot and get yourself organised!
3 comments:
Amen. Have you ever noticed that people can tell you what they don't want but can't really articulate what they do want in a relationship outside of the physical.
Yes but its hard because we've always been thought that wanting is a negative trait rather than something positive.
It is very confusing at times and often I am guilty at best for wanting the other half to be intuitive. Some guys just aren't born with EQ!
Maybe that is why I am so pissed off all the time these days with him. Not good!
Well, it's only "not good" if you don't tell him how you feel and start exhibiting negative behavior. I don't get guys there. They say they want to hang out, but don't call for about a week. Am I supposed to be okay with that?
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