I have been wondering why relationships do and don't work recently after walking with a friend through his apparent break-up recently. One real advice and this is talking about the supposed 'straight man' who has embrace his gayisms, is not to be enticed into believing that they are monogamous or wanting a monogamous relationship. Their animal instinct requires them to root and root till it is out of their system - you have to be a fool to believe otherwise. But then again - love is blind! Just keep your heart safe from people that will eventually hurt you.
Middle aged men who have just come out suffers from the same juvenile delinquency of wanting to try everything once in an 18 year old. They are now openly gay but are closeted in their sexual deviances - 20 years of denial cannot truthfully be cleansed in 2 months of Manhunt, Gaydar, Oxford St, The Peel or whatever that gets their rocks off. Nice just doesn't cut it R.
There is also the issue of building a reliable network of gay friends in which, for the very reason that they don't have any, will use yours to their heart's content. We need to stop all this abuse and therefore should be vigilant to the signs. The reborn again gay man is therefore unable to provide the necessary support that a gay relationship requires - they are mentally inadequate and can be quite the sexual piranha no matter how educated they can be on paper. Strip away the facade and see the truth for what it is.
Hang in there R - there is someone special out there for you and if not, I will always be here. Be good and be safe.
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